The Burden of Struggle and the Forgotten Simplicity

Have you ever felt that something only has meaning if it was hard to achieve? That the more difficult the journey, the more valuable the destination? It’s a strange contradiction—humans desire happiness, yet often reject it if it comes too easily.  

We have been conditioned to believe that struggle is necessary for meaning. That without hardship, there is no true victory. That pain makes experiences real. But is this belief helping us, or have we simply inherited it without question?  

The Human Obsession with Hardship  

Why do people take pride in saying, “I had to fight for this” rather than simply stating, “I found this with ease”? Somewhere in our collective consciousness, we have tied effort to worth. If something is not difficult, we believe it cannot be valuable.  

Once, when I was younger, I overheard a conversation between two friends. One had secured a job through connections, while the other had worked tirelessly for years before landing a similar role. The latter scoffed, implying that the first had not truly "earned" their success. It made me wonder—why do we assume that ease means less value?  

This belief is everywhere. If an artist creates a masterpiece effortlessly, people suspect it lacks depth. If a spiritual seeker finds enlightenment without hardship, their wisdom is questioned. It is as if pain itself has become proof of authenticity.  

But what if this is simply an illusion we refuse to let go of?  

Rituals: The Burden We Pass Down  

Have you ever participated in a ritual and felt like you were going through the motions without understanding the purpose? Traditions are powerful, but they are also a way of passing down struggle from one generation to the next.  

During healing, many people hold onto their pain because they believe it makes their journey valid. If suffering is removed too quickly, they feel lost, as if their progress has been taken away. This mindset is deeply ingrained in the way we approach spiritual and cultural practices.  

Take religious fasting—originally meant to cultivate discipline and awareness. Over time, for many, it has shifted from a practice of mindfulness to a test of endurance. The suffering itself becomes the focus, rather than the wisdom behind it.  

Once, when I attended a long ritual, I noticed something odd. Some participants seemed more concerned with how exhausting it was rather than what it represented. It made me wonder: Have we confused hardship with spirituality?  

Rejecting Simplicity  

Have you ever ignored an easy solution just because it felt too simple?  

Once, when I was learning meditation, I struggled to believe that peace could be found just by letting go. My mind resisted the idea that something so profound could be this effortless. I searched for advanced techniques, longer practices, deeper philosophies—anything to make it feel deserved.  

But the truth was right in front of me: simplicity was the answer all along.  

And yet, simplicity is often what we fear the most. If life is not difficult, if wisdom comes without suffering, then what was the point of all the pain before? It is a terrifying thought—that maybe, just maybe, we made things harder than they ever needed to be.  

The Illusion of Hardship as Growth  

Have you ever stayed in a situation longer than necessary, believing that enduring it made you stronger?  

People often romanticise struggle, as though every painful experience must have a deeper purpose. But not all pain leads to growth, and not all wisdom requires suffering.  

Think about a student who studies all night before an exam, feeling a sense of accomplishment simply because they struggled. Did the exhaustion actually improve their understanding, or did it just validate their belief that effort equals success?  

We see this everywhere—people clinging to unhealthy relationships because they believe "real love is hard," or staying in toxic jobs because they equate burnout with dedication. But is this truly growth, or just unnecessary suffering?  

The Truth That Was Always There  

Have you ever come across a simple piece of wisdom that changed your perspective instantly?  

Once, when I was reading about ancient spiritual teachings, I noticed something striking—all the deepest truths could be summed up in single sentences. “Be present,” “Detach from the illusion of control,” “Love without expectation.”  

Yet, people spend entire lifetimes searching for what was always there. Not because the truth is hidden, but because we refuse to accept that something so simple could be enough.  

We add layers of complexity, convinced that wisdom must be hard-won. But what if it isn't? What if clarity is not found in suffering, but in letting go of the unnecessary?  

Breaking Free from the Cycle of Struggle  

Have you ever wondered how your life would look if you no longer believed that difficulty was necessary?  

Once, when I was deep in thought, I asked myself: If everything I wanted was given to me without struggle, would I still feel fulfilled? The question unsettled me. The idea of having something without fighting for it felt unnatural.  

But then I realised—this was just conditioning. It was not reality.  

What if life was never meant to be a constant battle? What if ease and depth could coexist? What if wisdom did not have to be painful?  

Struggle has its place. It can refine us, challenge us, and help us grow. But it is not the destination. The real journey is learning when effort is necessary and when it is simply an illusion we refuse to let go of.  

Once, when I was watching the sunset, I realised something simple—some of the most beautiful things in life require nothing from us but presence. Perhaps the greatest wisdom is not found in the fight, but in the moment we choose to stop fighting.  

The real victory is knowing when to step beyond the struggle.

Disclaimer:

I am an energy healer and spiritual guide with more than 12 years of experience and practice. Through my vision and ability to understand live energy patterns, I have developed a unique process to guide and heal people, helping them uncover the root cause of their suffering.  

While I work closely with individuals experiencing various medical conditions, I am not a certified medical professional. My healing is not intended to replace any medical treatment or diagnosis but to support and accelerate the recovery process.  

It is important to consult a qualified healthcare provider for any medical concerns. My guidance focuses on energy balance, emotional well-being, and spiritual growth, complementing conventional medical approaches for overall healing.